Saturday, June 07, 2008

Elderly Adoption

I was mowing my Aunts lawn this day Saturday in the a.m. when it dong on me to constantly mow one of her neighbours lawn when needed because she uses a service to clip it for her and and today was one of those days I thought I'd do hers as well. I would do it every often but I wasn't sure if she liked the way I did it in the past because I do it too short at times because I drive to my aunts weekly and help keep up the appearance of the property because of the prime location it had been built for in that late 50's and today was hot real early.

So adopt an elderly neighbour and watch out for them, ask them if they need groceries or be driven to somewhere, my sister does that she has a group of them herself. She never complains well almost never and makes her feel good. back to the story

I was thanked as usual but this time she asked me to come in because my aunt was on the phone who wanted to speak with me. Melba the neighbour called my aunt at my mothers because she was staying with her due to a ... well actually my mother is such a care giver and my aunt loves full attention and pamper due to a back soreness.

a bride alone with a child
When I sat down in her house I looked around while speaking to my aunt and my mother I noticed the furniture was all dated like a time capsule of the late 50's right to the original paint job. When the house was built it was furnished with the latest style of the times and it was worn through time but very beautiful designed lines with the stereo was just dead stop stunning classic. I don't know very much of this women other than her daughter lives out west and her husband died or left her real early in the relationship.

40 years of shear loneliness

There was a bungalow stopped in time and I tried to read the room, get a psyk reading of the house and all I saw was shear loneliness, no family pictures, just the same motif of a model home on a construction site, a bride alone with a child who thought it was important enough to leave her all alone in Toronto must have been horrible. She unhappiness, empty, no love, no attention for 40 years of shear loneliness.

cattle prod them in the same chicken coop

My family is trying to convince my aunt to sell the property and move into the same building of my mothers and fathers and try to cattle prod them in the same chicken coop making it easier for my sister to maintain excellent quality of care for them.
SO I was thinking, I would ask Melba with my sisters approval to move with my aunt when we gets ready to move in, the property has townhouses as well in hopes they want a garden. :0 I love garden flowers.

The over whelming need to make sure she was safe, after my uncles death she took the responsibility to keep an eye on my aunt without be asked, so I will return the favour as my pleasure to repay karma.

Karma Deal Inc.

It's so easy I go through life thinking of karma points and it makes me feel good inside, and is too easy to find elderly in helping need.

Adopt an Elderly
p.s. took long to edit, tired eyes closing.. .zzzzz

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